I was recently told that I was acting bourgeois by a female acquaintance of mine because in conversation I stated that when I’m out with a man I don’t open doors. She stated “Niccole you expect too much.” I was flabbergasted that this bird had the nerve to say that I set my standards too high because I expect for a man to open my door. Ladies, please be clear a man is supposed to open your doors, allow you to enter and leave elevators first and he is supposed to walk on the street side of the sidewalk. This should not only be expected but is mandatory when taking someone like myself out. I am a woman, not a girl or a teenager. I am not impressed by drug dealers or thugs. I am turned on by 401k’s and credit scores. I don’t want a guy who flashes his money and makes it rain but a man who invests it and has a home and stock options.
I am surrounded by underachieving females who are just not on my level. I often wonder if it is the area in which I live or if it is the urban culture that we now all live in. There is so much emphasis on body and not enough on brains. Women are dying getting bootleg surgery to make their asses bigger to satisfy what they think men want. When did a beautiful smile become obsolete and a fat ass and long weave became more attractive than a gorgeous face? Expect more from the man that you are dating, married to, have children with or sleeping with. For the underachieving women who have multiple children, collecting benefits and wearing little to no clothing while posting pictures on Instagram…I expect nothing from you. To all other woman, stop the foolishness. Stop giving it up so easily because he gave you a compliment. Act like a lady and demand respect so that these men know that they need to be a gentleman at all times. For the women like myself who have their life together and are beautiful, confident, strong and independent keep up the good work and continue to let the ratchets hate.
Until Next Time,
Niccole
I am surrounded by underachieving females who are just not on my level. I often wonder if it is the area in which I live or if it is the urban culture that we now all live in. There is so much emphasis on body and not enough on brains. Women are dying getting bootleg surgery to make their asses bigger to satisfy what they think men want. When did a beautiful smile become obsolete and a fat ass and long weave became more attractive than a gorgeous face? Expect more from the man that you are dating, married to, have children with or sleeping with. For the underachieving women who have multiple children, collecting benefits and wearing little to no clothing while posting pictures on Instagram…I expect nothing from you. To all other woman, stop the foolishness. Stop giving it up so easily because he gave you a compliment. Act like a lady and demand respect so that these men know that they need to be a gentleman at all times. For the women like myself who have their life together and are beautiful, confident, strong and independent keep up the good work and continue to let the ratchets hate.
Until Next Time,
Niccole
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